vhonn_jheng

“Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.”

We were college sweetheart, from then our beautiful love story started. Funny it seems but true, we were not sure then that we could and would stay this for long. We have survived all the trials and challenges. As days passed by we didn’t notice we are growing each day loving and enjoying each other’s company. The thought of happiness that brings of our togetherness, the sharing of good times and the understanding of each mood made us realize we are SOULMATES. We have a rich fantasy life. It all revolved around the object of us, “vhonn – jheng”. There is nothing like being young and in love – we feels young forever hehehe We have now been together for almost six years and still counting for more to come. We love to talk about life and future. Quarrels and arguments comes once in a while but managed to handle it. Proven and tested that we cannot live each single day without each other or not hearing our voices and saying “i love you”. We manage to have a date, give gifts, cards, greet each other during special days…We are indeed a very happy fulfilled couple – we intend to stay forever!

incoming x-titch projects

i am not yet done with the 3 designs i started last december 2007, but here i am about to start again another 2 designs wink*… sakit ko na yata ito, whenever i see a nice design, gusto ko gawin agad hehehe i asked my brother to buy and send me all the materials (Cloth, DMC and Bobbins)…this morning i received an SMS from him saying that he’s on the way to quiapo to buy those things…yehey! it will arrived next week..kinda excited

question & answer

last night, bago kami natulog ni honey vhonn kwentuhan muna kami.  routine na namin ang mag-kwentuhan bago matulog kahit antok na antok n siya dapat bigyan nya ako ng 5-10minutes makinig man o mg-share din…usually si honey, makikinig lang eh o kaya mangungulit.

sabi ko question and answer tayo hon…tinignan nya ako at ngumiti…hindi ko n hinintay ang sagot nya.

jheng    : Saan tau una kumain?

vhonn   : s burger king?

jheng    : mali

vhonn   : max’s?

jheng    : hindi ah, kainis k wg mo n ipaalala ang max’s kc naalala ko lng nung dinala mo ako dun kulang ung pera mo, ng-abono p ako..

vhonn   : yabang nman…sirit na…

jheng    : eh d s turo-turo s dorm ko dati

jheng    : anu movie at san tau una nuod?

vhonn  : SM Manila?

jheng   : mali

vhonn  : star wars ata un s SM Manila

jheng   : mali nga…s Robinson’s Place tau

jheng    : anu kulay ng una flowers n bngay mo skin at cnu ksma ko nung bngay mo un?

vhonn  : red at c concep(pinsan dearest ko)

jheng    : (hinampas ko) mali

vhonn   : tumatawa, pink ata pero c concep ksma mo nun s dorm…

jheng    : mali nga, c hannah (pinsan ko p rin) ang kasama ko at PUTI po un n ROSES from Designer’s Bloom

vhonn  : kamot ng ulo

jheng   : eh ung pangalawa at pangatlo?

vhonn  : puti ata at ska puti p rin…

jheng   :  mali ung pangalawa…kanino mo pinaabot un?

vhonn  : puti un…kay irish, ung ksama mo s room

jheng    : PINK po un at s Designer’s Bloom din…

jheng    : eh ung png-3?

vhonn   : aahh alam ko n yan PUTI nga ksma ko c Mike s Dangwa ko binili hehehe 17pcs…

jheng    : kainis k n, 12pcs un

vhonn   : kamot p rin ng ulo, tulog n tau…talo ako…

jheng    : last na…kelan mo ako pnkilala kina mama at papa?

vhonn  : (nag-isip p muna) bday ko ata un honey noh?

jheng   : anu year?

vhonn  : tulog n tau (sabay talukbong ng kumot)

jheng    : aarrgghhh kainis ka!

hehehe mahina c honey sa memorization…ngkakamot lng cya ulo pg tanung ko o kaya nman iniiba nya usapan…pati nga number nya nd nya alam hehehe peace honey (bka bgla cya mpdaan d2 s blog ko eH)

pero ito ang nd nya mkklimutan :

june 27, 2002 – ang aming simula…tuwing ssapit ang 27th of the month, nd cya nkklimot batiin ako at kahit busy s trabaho nkkpg-date p rin every 27th wink*

sigh honey ko…i love u p rin kahit nklimutan mo n ung mga pngtatanung ko s u…

addicted to needles and thread – cross stitches

well, got 3 designs in a row…2 from LANARTE and 1 from my multiply groups “xtitch4all”

medyo nawindang ata ako at nabigla…need a break for my xtitch, been feeling not well for the past few days…i was awake till midnight for my xtitch… then woke up as early as 5am to prepare for work.  by 6:30am i am already in the office xtitching again till 7:45…8am – 530pm office works…

i admit i am enjoying  what i am doing, i didn’t mind and notice i am taking for granted my health…my eyebags are really bbbbiiggg now…

then going home in the evening really tires me, from dubai – sharjah takes 1-1 1/2 hours, sometimes so unlucky if i didn’t catch the 6pm bus… – need to blame my boss for this (i hope he doesn’t have a multiply account or else tigok ako)…he has to go first before we leave the office – that comes up to 6pm…

uuhhmmm need to take beauty rest wink*

Please consider reading this… beware my KABAYANS here in UAE!

someone sent this message to my yahoo email…guys, beware! especially those who are here in UAE on visit visa…

This is based on true story, I have a friend who just arrived in Dubai last Friday (no need to mention her name), actually I referred her to a company named SMART FORWARDS –previously Compact Express (Tel#883-6033) here in Jebel Ali (they’re one of our customer’s forwarder), and the owner/manager (I think) is Mr. Shady (Arabic guy).

He hired her immediately, she started only yesterday (Nov 27), at first she felt weird because she’s the only staff there and that Mr. Shady always locked the door every time he go outside and even when he’s around. Maybe because the guy thinks she might get something valuable and run away.

But on the second day, which is only today (Nov 28), something happened. He tried to kiss her and told her he want to have sex with her. He locked the door and turned off the lights. She’s so afraid then because she can’t do something. God is good, he sent an angel (hope so), while he’s trying to force her, a customer came in and knocked, that’s the time when this Shady stopped.

My friend called me and asked help, so with my manager’s approval, we went there to pick her up (she was able to go outside of the room because Shady was busy with the customer). She was crying when we got there, my heart broke, I felt guilty but I didn’t know that this will happen to her.

According to my colleagues, this guy has a history of hiring ladies (only Filipina), he tried to do this to others some years ago (imagine, for almost 40 times). No one reported to the police maybe because of fear and also their status here, which may caused trouble if they file complaint against this guy. Either my friend don’t want to go to the police to give statement and all.   So, as to help our “kabayans”, please, please forward this email to avoid this thing happen again.

If you have a friend, whose new here and looking for a job in JAFZ, please warn them.

It’s your call now!

naiinis ako…

naiinis ako…

gumising ng maaga…

m-stuck s traffic jam…

s office…

kay bossing…

s bus stop pg uwian n…

naiinis ako…

parang gus2 ko umuwi ng PILIPINAS…

aahhh kelan kaya ako uuwi…

love ko wife ko…

Last Saturday evening, dumating ako s bus stop na madami na namang tao, nghi2ntay ng bus, pahirapan n nman s pg-uwi..nd alam anu oras ddating ang bus byaheng dubai-sharjah.  May mga KABAYAN ako nkausap at inip n rin at gutom,gus2ng – gus2 n makauwi,isipin p n traffic jam n ung time n 6pm pauwing sharjah.

Then, ung isa guy, i forgot his name,sb nya “gus2 nyo taxi n lng tau?sharing?dun ako mg-aabang,hintay nyo ako…”

kami 2 babae ng-agree n kaysa abutin ng syam-syam s pghi2ntay ng bus pero ung isa babae ng-aalangan sumama kc traffic n nga – bka abutin ng malaki ang metro.

in just minutes, nkkuha ng taxi ung guy.. takbo kami kc madami rin nghi2ntay ng taxi.ung isa babae nd nga sumama.pero ,me isang guy n lumapit at nkiusap n mkksabay…”sakay k n KABAYAN,jan k n s harap maupo” sb nmin.

nmukhaan ko c KABAYAN, sb ko “kuya,kilala kita..nksabay n kita dati,sabado din un…”

“talaga?nd ko matandaan ata…” sagot nya

“bday ng misis mo nung time n un” phabol ko

tinignan nya ako s likod ng taxi…

“aahhh oo nksabay nga kita..kaw ung look alike ni…”

pinutol ko at inunahan ko cya…

“c chix ng PBB?un ung sb nung isa kasabay ntin dati pero i doubt if kamukha ko nga c chix” sb ko…

“hindi mas mganda k kay chix…c KYLA ang kmukha mo…pg-uwi ko nga s bahay sb ko s wife ko - mommy,may nksbay ako girl ngaun kamukha n KYLA - ang ganda mommy”

awts…mganda daw ako hehehe kahit san ako mkpunta basta kilala c KYLA ssbhin kmukha ko or kptid ko daw… 

well,nd ang kgandahan ko n cnb nya ang isu2lat ko…hehehe

as the taxi goes on…c kuya Jun (his name) ng-start n uli cya mgkwento about his family, his profession s pinas at nging profession d2 s UAE…kami 3 s likod ng taxi tanung2 and palitan ng kuro2…

Kuya Jun : Sundalo ako s Pinas, Accountant d2 s Dubai…pero mind you guys, nd ako accountant pero nung interview ko sb ko I KNOW ACCOUNTING…etc,,,etc…etc p about his work

Guy 2 : Happy k b nman n nd2 k s UAE at iniwan mo ang pgging sundalo?  Anung kaibahan?

Kuya Jun : BEING WITH MY WIFE…it was a big sacrifice for me…it was like, pnapili ako between my son and my wife…i just told myself ung anak ko kahit 10years nd ko makita anak ko p rin cya…ung asawa ko tsk..tsk..i love my wife…importante ung mgkasama kami palagi.

Kuya Jun : Yesterday i called my son…sb nya daddy,turuan mo ako mgbasa..daddy tanungin mo ako laws of inertia, daddy tanungin mo ako components of fire…tnanung ko cya kung naintndhan nya b un sb nya nd daw…turo daw un ng tito nya…malungkot n ala kami duon ng mommy nya n mgtu2ro s knya…pero sb ko konting panahon lng kami d2…

sb ko : bakit nd nyo kunin ang anak nyo d2?

kuya Jun : ayaw nmin…ayaw ko lumaki cya d2 s loob lng room…s province, marranasan nya ang tumakbo, umakyat ng puno, preskong hangin…

me dagdag p cya…

Kuya Jun : Mtgal din bago ako nkpg-work d2…hanggang s feeling desperate nko me offer skin s Fujairah…malaking dhs offer salary..cnb ko s wife ko…sb nya : daddy,kya nga kita pnpunta d2 para mgksama tau kung pu2nta k dun parang nasa pinas k din…nd ko tinanggap…IM HERE TO BE WITH MY WIFE…

s time natin ngaun parang bihira tau mkka-encounter ng lalaking very vocal s pgssbing love nila wife nila…kung mppkinggan nyo mgkwento c kuya june, mto-touched ka at ssbhin npkswerte ng WIFE nya to have HIM…nd ko lam kelan ko uli cya mkksabay….hail to you kuya jun, dakila ang yong pgmamahal…

ay ay pag-ibig…

“Sometimes LOVE is so unfair, the more you sacrifice, the more you hurt and you feel you’ve given your BEST, it’s still not enough till such time you had no choice but to GIVE UP…” 

I got this from my friend’s inbox…really fits on her coz that’s what she is feeling right now.  I’ve known HER just for a month now but we have shared a lot of stories – on life, at work, with friends and relationships…awts puso ko usaping pag-ibig itetch… 

Lahat tayo nag-aasam mkilala at maksama ang kabiyak ng ating tsinelas n mkksama for life.  Pero hindi lahat ay swerte n matunton agad-agad ang mga mttwag n PARTNER.  Maaaring ngaun, bukas o hindi natin alam nasa paligid lng pala natin. I know SHE fell in love with the guy but from the very start she knows it shouldn’t be.  The guy is set to get married – awts*.  She tried not to fall.  But the more she tries, the more she gets close with the guy. 

Let’s face it, let’s admit, tayong babae kahit anung iwas natin, kahit anung paliwanag natin s utak ng PUSO natin kung anu ang MALI, sadyang matigas ang ulo ng Puso natin.  Ika nga kung anung mali un ung mas nae-enjoy natin gawin.  Pero at the end of the day, mre-realize natin awts ang sakit pala 

Matagal ko SIYA nd nkakwentuhan, pgbalik ko from a short vacation (daw) sabi nya SHE gave up on him and right now, she is trying to move on.  She realize, finally that wala patu2nguhan if she would continue on that thing. 

Girl, I know, you’ll come across to read this blog later.  Be strong.  Someday, somehow the RIGHT GUY for you will come – SOON.

the hard lesson on love and men

‘got this from my yahoo groups…

 Remember when Meredith Grey uttered the words, “Pick Me, Choose me, Love Me”?. Indeed, she still have to learn lessons about love and men. Here are some thoughts. 

Lessons Meredith Grey must learn (GREY’S ANATOMY) 

The Hard Lessons on Love and Men…

1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you.
 
Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you.  Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship. 

There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hung up on your past.

Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough.
 
4. Do not look into images. 

How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules. 

Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it’s worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.
 
6. Do not be scared to lose him.

Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.
 
7. Avoid calling your guy. 

It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s the guy who’s calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).
 
8. There is a guy who will value you. 

There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can.  Also, do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what. 

Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can’t leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress. 

10. He must respect you. 

No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it. 

Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way. 

Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life. 

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship. 

Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn’t come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle. 

If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be.  Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love. 

Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don’t be afraid to be single. 

It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl. 

Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits. 

Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn’t give your all, you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him. 

Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one. 

Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t hinder his gimmicks. Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don’t be easy. Don’t be like every other girl he had in his life.

http://aila-endaya.blog.friendster.com/2005/10/ - the author

happy birthday honey…

yup, today’s d special day of my honey vhonn…

i thought i couldn’t make it.  i was in Kish Island, Iran since Wednesday evening for a visa change since i cancelled my employment visa from the previous company i’ve worked.  Thursday morning, i got my new visa then hurriedly went to the Kish Air ticketing office, when i saw my booking i want to scream – flight schedule was EY7136 Nov10, 19:30hours… i asked for an earlier booking but they said all flights was full…in anyway i still proceed to the airport to take a chance.  There was a lot of passenger there taking a chance as well…when i saw them and found out that they are like me i want to cry again…

To make my long story short – after of 2days in the airport taking a chance – i was able to board last night – last flight…thanks GOD.  He heard my prayers.

I reached home by 23:30hours – 30minutes before my honey’s bday…i haven’t bought any gift yet but as what he has said – as long as i am with him it would be much better. awts ang sweet ng honey ko…

uuhhmmm i am here in the office – i have’t got a better sleep for 3days now…i hope my boss would allow me to go home early to rest and to celebrate honey’s birthday!